#motivasi untuk diri sendiri

masa itu seperti pedang, jika kita tidak memintasnya, ia akan memotong kita.

~pepatah arab

#nasihat & teguran

masalah orang kita saya adalah bila 

orang memberi teguran, terbaca nasihat

tak terasa ke diri sendiri. rasa kita semua betul dah. yang salah itu orang lain.

#enche google

 enche google selalu berikan saya kejutan. dengan enche google kita jumpa macam-macam ragam manusia di dunia realiti, dengan enche google kita mengembara banyak tempat yang kita tak pernah pergi, dengan enche google kita kenal seseorang, dengan enche google kita tahu kita sakit apa, dengan enche google kita cari hiburan.

hari ini, enche google bacakan saya kisah cinta.

klik sini

lepastu sini

kemudian sini pulak

lepastu sini lagi

sini

dan sini :)

bila habis baca semua ni, saya rasa macam waahh realiti hidup bukan macam yang kita expect. apa lagi dalam soal hati kan?

#the cockroach theory

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on

a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken

face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands

desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got

panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed

on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the

drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of

the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and

threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind

picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach

responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle

the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or

my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the

disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my

inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that

disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates

chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood, I should not react in life.

I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well

thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of

hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in

anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.

Have a nice day.

#cik meow & enche misai

enche misai & cik meow dah sampai! excited sangat, harap-harap tuan enche misai tu suka :)

#deskriptif & objektif

soalan : ya atau tidak?

perempuan : ya sebab bla... bla... bla... tidak sebab bla... bla... bla...

lelaki 1 : ya.

lelaki 2 : tidak.

#perempuan memang dilahirkan menjadi makhluk deskriptif. lelaki memang objektif.